What's up with the LGBT community these days? For those of you whom do not understand the that term means. LGBT stands for Lesbians,Gays,BISEXUALS and Transgendered. Okay with that being said, bisexuals have been receiving alot of slack from the lesbian community. Are lesbians aware that bisexual ARE in fact everywhere o this earth? Do we bisexual have to step up our game in order to receive respect or is it just lesbians being immature?
Growing up i've seen women kiss. I never thought much of it, but i have definitely stared at this act. I was young and didnt know my surroundings. In high school i watch lesbians and gay men multiply. they seemed to be increasing by the minute. why they were maximizing i was wondering where are the bisexuals? I knew damn well that there couldn't be just gay and lesbians at my high school. Someone had to be bisexual and there were bisexuals. One chick gotten pregnant after being with a woman, in fact there were two of them. I secretly appualed them. I wanted to see more of me...more of people with my sexual orientation. Same thing in college.
I've never hung with lesbians, but from what ive witnessed. They really have something against bi's. On a Tyra Banks show, Tyra featured three lesbians facing off with three straight women whom loved making out with their friends. Now i don't know how the damn show turned to a bisexual bashing, but one lesbian claim that bisexual are disgusting and they you can be either straight or gay... THAT'S BULLSHIT SWEETHEART!! The lesbians also claimed bisexuals were the ones to blame for using them and leading them on.... Again BULLSHIT!
Bisexuals let people know they're bisexual. No real damn bisexual in going to sit here and lie about not liking the opposite sex. And if a lesbian woman have indeed encountered a woman to sleep with them then leave them. Then they in fact have had a one-night stand with a bi-curious woman. More then likely bi-curious women can't say "I'm bisexual and i would like to have sex with you." they simply don't know if they are in fact bisexual.... with that being said i feel lesbian women need to wise up and realize when they are in fact being played. Instead of accusing bisexuals as nasty, promiscuous, confused or slutty. get to know your damn community better. If we bisexuals weren't REAL then why would there be a flag for us? Why would there be organisations for us? Why would we be included in the LGBT? I THINK WE NEED TO CUT THE BULLSSHIT AND GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER...
I agree with you. Lesbians can be extreme, but like any other group of people, it's not all of them. I am female but don't like being a female and see myself more as a male, a straight male. Therefore, I must be labeled transgendered if we have to put a label on it. But instead of trying to explain that to people, they can just assume I'm gay. I don't like being called a lesbian though. I think it has something to do with being called that in Jr High and I didn't know what it meant and have never really cared for it since it came across as something bad at the time. I don't particularly look for gay women in relationships either because, to me, most gay women want their women to look like women. I certainly want the woman to which I am attracted to look feminine. So for me to get a feminine woman, I should probably look for those bi women. When I was younger and would see a really butch woman with a nice looking fem woman, I would think, "Where the hell did she find her?" Was probably one of those bi-curious women you spoke of. I don't believe you have to be one or the other. Bi people do indeed exist. I believe they are more open minded to the fact of being attracted to a person than a gender which to me is more important.
Knowledge is Power....get some.